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I Killed 17 Businesses in 3 Years — Here's What My ADHD Brain Learned

  2:47 AM. I’m standing in the digital wreckage of my ambition — folders full of what-ifs, blinking cursors, and half-finished dreams. There it was again. The blinking cursor in my "Ideas" folder. Seventeen subfolders stared back at me like digital tombstones. Each one a story. Each one a sprint that turned into a stumble. Some died in a weekend. Others held on for months, hopeful and gasping, before I gently pulled the plug. 🔗 Read this article in full (100% free) on my blog But something was different tonight. Instead of spiraling into the usual shame spiral — you know, the “why can’t I just finish something?” loop — I decided to go exploring. A quiet, solo excavation through my abandoned projects. And what I found? It wasn’t failure. It was a map. The Hyperfocus Honeymoon (Projects 1–5) The AI-Powered Meal Planner made it 11 days. Wireframes. API research. Backend code. All built in a dopamine-fueled sprint. Then I remembered: I hadn’t meal-planned for myself in t...

The Day I Almost Destroyed My Community With AI

  (And the Five Boundaries That Brought It Back to Life) Let me paint the scene. It’s 2:14 AM. I’m staring at my screen, one eye twitching from too much caffeine, half a burrito going cold next to me. I’m trying to manage a community that feels like it’s growing faster than I can humanly keep up with — notifications, DMs, content reviews, vulnerable posts needing genuine care — and all I can think is: “There has to be a better way.” Spoiler: there wasn’t. At least not the way I tried it. When Efficiency Becomes a Silent Killer I didn’t set out to wreck my community. I thought I was optimizing it. AI tools promised me the world: “Scale your engagement!”   “Personalize at volume!”   “Never miss a member interaction again!” And as a solo creator burning $47/month on tools while competing with well-funded communities, it felt like my lifeline. So I dove in, headfirst. At first, it worked . The automation was sleek. Members were getting welcomed instantly. I was slee...

We Built What Anthropic Just Published—Two Months Ago

  It started with a blink. Then a pause. Then that familiar mix of validation and quiet disbelief. Scrolling through Google News last night, I came across an article on The Decoder, featuring a headline about Anthropic’s new method for training AI models using something called Internal Coherence Maximization (ICM). This technique enables language models to teach themselves, without relying on external human labels. And I thought: “Wait a minute. We’ve been building that into our agent system for the past two months.” This isn’t a humblebrag. It’s a testament to what happens when you build in the open, design from first principles, and trust the internal logic of your product to evolve alongside cutting-edge research, sometimes even ahead of it. The Power of Self-Tuning Systems ICM is built on a simple yet powerful idea: what if models could determine the quality of their answers based on internal consistency , rather than relying on a human to label them? Anthropic’s researchers de...

My AI Managed My Identity for 30 Days—Then I Disappeared

  A Solo Creator's Honest Experiment with Automated Identity Management The notification said my "authenticity score" had dropped to 47%. I stared at the dashboard of my AI identity management system, watching as algorithms rewrote my LinkedIn posts, optimized my Twitter threads, and scheduled content across seven platforms. Everything looked perfect. Professional. Polished. And absolutely nothing like me. "Just let the AI handle it," everyone said. "It'll save you hours." They weren't wrong about the time—what they didn't mention was what else it would cost. Day 1: The Seductive Promise of Automation Setting up the AI identity management felt like hiring a team of virtual assistants. Feed it your brand guidelines, connect your accounts, approve the tone settings. The system analyzed my past content, learned my "voice," and promised to maintain consistent presence across every platform. My ADHD brain practically vibrated wit...

Your Analytics Dashboard Is Lying to You (And Your ADHD Brain Knows It)

  I'm staring at 23 browser tabs. Again. Google Analytics sits next to Facebook Insights, which is bookmarked beside SEMrush, Ahrefs, and three different heat-map tools I swore would "finally give me clarity." My laptop fan is whirring like it's about to achieve flight, and I can feel that familiar knot forming in my stomach—the one that says you should understand this by now. Sound familiar? Here's what nobody tells ADHD entrepreneurs about analytics: Your dashboard isn't just overwhelming—it's actively lying to you. And your scattered, hyperfocused, beautifully chaotic brain? It knows something's wrong. The Analytics Trap That Catches ADHD Brains Last Tuesday, I spent four hours diving deep into bounce rates. Four. Hours. I emerged from that rabbit hole with seventeen new theories about user behavior, six potential website fixes, and absolutely zero revenue-generating actions taken. My ADHD brain had done what it does best—turned a simple check...

5 Productivity Rituals That Actually Work for ADHD Brains (Backed by Neuroscience)

  If you have ADHD and every productivity system you've tried eventually falls apart, it's not because you lack willpower. It's because they weren't designed for your brain. Most productivity advice assumes neurotypical brains that respond predictably to traditional reward systems, long-term planning, and consistent routines. But ADHD brains operate on fundamentally different neurochemical patterns. We have lower baseline dopamine levels and different dopamine transporter densities, making those well-intentioned productivity frameworks feel like trying to run software designed for Windows on a Mac—it's just not compatible. After years of watching brilliant ADHD creators burn out on systems that work for everyone else, I've identified five neuroscience-backed rituals that actually align with how our brains function. These aren't hacks to force your brain into neurotypical patterns—they're designed to work with your ADHD wiring, not against it. The Dopa...

I Tested 23 AI Tools for Remote Work—Here Are the 5 That Saved My Sanity

  As a solopreneur juggling multiple projects from my home office, I reached a breaking point last month. My productivity system was drowning in a sea of AI tools, each promising to be the magic bullet for remote work efficiency. Sound familiar? After spending three weeks methodically testing 23 different AI productivity tools, I discovered something crucial: more tools don't equal more productivity. In fact, they often create the opposite effect—digital overwhelm that leaves you questioning every workflow decision. Here's what I learned from my deep dive into the world of AI tools for remote work, and the five game-changing solutions that actually moved the needle on both my output and my mental health. If you're tired of tool-hunting and ready to build a sustainable remote work system, this is your roadmap. The Hidden Cost of AI Tool Overwhelm Before diving into my top picks, let's address the elephant in the room: decision fatigue. When I started this experiment,...